Gender, Gender Identity, and Sexual Orientation

How you would respond to a parent/family member who informed you they did not want anyone who is perceived (or self-reported) homosexual or transgender to be caring for, educating, and/or interacting with their child.

I would start by letting the family know that I understand their concerns at the same time I would assure them that everyone that works in the early childhood center is trained and is able to work with each individual child and their needs. I would also let them know that we are a group of diverse individuals. We have to treat everyone with respect without discriminating on their race, culture, sexual orientation and or religion.

 

If you have ever used or heard homophobic terms such as "fag," "gay," "homo," "sissy," "tom boy," or "lesbo" as an insult by a child toward another child? Or, by an adult toward a child? Describe what occurred. How might these types of comments influence all children? (Note: if you have not had a personal experience, ask a family member, friend, or colleague)

Growing up I have heard the homophobic terms “fag”, “gay”, “sissy” and “tom boy” used. One boy in particular in my neighborhood growing up other children would call a “fag”. This young man was nice, friendly and always willing to lend a helping hand. He always preferred to hang around girls and not boys. The other children in the neighborhood and at our middle school called him “fag” to his face and every time they saw him it did not matter where he was or with. I believe what they spoke of him had an influence on his life. This young man is now in a relationship with another young man and dresses like a female.